Learn to lose.

Losing is not the end of the World.

Since we are children we learn how good it is to win and always be the best, but we never learn to lose and the truth is that if we lose nothing happens, we just have to accept it and move on.

 
I am not a doctor, nor a psychologist, nor a life coach, but at some point, we have all had failures in not achieving something that we were very excited about, and it has happened to me, in fact, I have only won one thing in my life, which was a kitten watch that made a lot of noise and I only used it one night and took off the batteries so as not to hear the ticking.

Anyway, what I want to say is that on many occasions, the human being laments all the life, for things that were not achieved. Attention, it is valid to feel bad and sad, but if those feelings are eternal they blind you and do not see the new opportunities that may arise in your life, and if for some reason you do not get what you want again, there will be others, the important thing is to never give up and never get depressed or complain.

Maybe you will think that I am from another planet or that I see my world in a pink color, no, I live my life and I do not like to live in sadness or with reproaches, of all things what happens to us can be learned and It can improve. 

I recommend that you do what María Félix "La Doña" (Mexican actress) once said (although she said it for those women who suffer for a man, you can also take it for these cases) "To a man, we have to cry three days... And on the fourth day, you wear heels, and new clothes" and if you can do it in fewer days for you it will be much better, do not waste your time and live your life and look for more opportunities. 

I also leave another phrase of Maria Felix so that when you lose something you do not feel so bad: "Do not feel bad if someone rejects you, people usually reject the expensive thing because they can not afford it".